Hard to Love Lyrics – SAY MY NAME | from “&Our Vibe”

Hard to Love (♥LOVE) Lyrics - SAY MY NAME | from "&Our Vibe"
         

SAY MY NAME’s &Our Vibe EP lands today—December 29 via iNKODE Entertainment (인코드 엔터테인먼트)—like a hazy summer crush you can’t pin down, and “Hard to Love” is the track that bottles that sweet sting of wanting more from a lukewarm spark.

Penned by Nevada from lalala Studio alongside Chaz Jackson and Infinity, with composition credits to Jackson and Infinity, this fourth cut on the five-track set dives headfirst into love’s tricky dance. It’s dreamy K-pop with a bubbly twist—think shimmering synths and airy vocals floating over a gentle trap beat, evoking those late-night scrolls through someone’s vague texts. The sound’s all aesthetic escapism: soft echoes on the “알 듯 말 듯” hooks that blur into English pleas, blending R&B whispers with pop polish for a vibe that’s equal parts confessional and cinematic.

Thematically, it’s fresh flames flickering against real-world friction—the frustration of muted replies (“현실은 툭 무채색 ‘응’”), the pull to decode a crush’s half-hidden heart, and that bridge ultimatum begging for “More, On And On.” It’s SAY MY NAME leaning into vulnerability, ditching high-energy debuts for this intimate glow-up that feels like eavesdropping on your own what-ifs.

&Our Vibe itself is their third EP and second as an eight-piece (shoutout to new Chinese member Shuai joining post-iLy single), a compact love letter to shared frequencies. The five tracks—“BAD IDEA,” “UFO (ATTENT!ON),” “DeLuLu SoLuLu,” this gem, and closer “SAY MY NAME”—weave a concept of vibing through romance’s chaos, from delusional crushes to cosmic connections. It’s their most cohesive yet, clocking under 20 minutes of ear-candy escapism, with visuals teasing pastel aesthetics and group choreo that sways like a slow-burn confession.

Since debuting in 2023 with the anthemic “Boys Be Ambitious” under TOP Media (home to UP10TION vets), SAY MY NAME’s been that underdog crew stacking buzz through relentless comebacks. This EP marks their boldest pivot—trading rookie fire for nuanced, emotion-soaked narratives that nod to global influences while keeping that Korean pop sheen. At 22-ish average age, they’re hitting stride with sold-out fanmeets in Seoul and viral TikToks syncing “Hard to Love” to couple reels, proving they’re not just names to drop; they’re the vibe you linger on.

Dive into the Hard to Love lyrics below and unpack its raw narrative. Don’t miss other &Our Vibe tracks for more of SAY MY NAME’s dreamy K-pop vibes.

Song Credits

         

Lead VocalsHitomi (히토미), Shuie (슈이), Mei (메이), Kanny (카니), Soha (소하), Dohee (도희), Junhwi (준휘) & Seungjoo (승주)
SongwriterNevada (lalala Studio), Chaz Jackson & Infinity
ComposerChaz Jackson & Infinity
LabeliNKODE Entertainment (인코드 엔터테인먼트)
Release DateDecember 29, 2025
Song LanguageKorean
Copyright ©iNKODE Entertainment (인코드 엔터테인먼트)
Phonographic Copyright ℗iNKODE Entertainment (인코드 엔터테인먼트)
Distributor워너뮤직/ADA (Warner Music/ADA)
TranslationHard to Love (English Translation) by SAY MY NAME

Lyrics of Hard to Love by SAY MY NAME

[Verse 1]
있잖아 한번 잘 들어봐
그 애의 맘을 알 수가 없어
무뚝뚝한 Heart 나완 달라
Yeah, 쭉 우린 이런 것 같아
바라는 건 Something Or Pic And Talk
현실은 툭 무채색 “응”
아무래도 이건 좀 아닌 것 같아
So Let Me Know, Yeah

[Chorus]
알 듯 말 듯 (Ah)
미지근한 그 마음
내겐 좀 부족해
Oh, 알고 싶어 난
꿈결 같은 (Ah)
나만의 상상 같은
사랑은 어려워
So Hard To Love

[Post-chorus]
So Hard To Love
So Hard To Love

[Verse 2]
뭔가 다른 Style
가벼운 질문도 답이 느린 게
“How ’bout A Call?”
갑자기 하는 건 별로라 말해
온도차가 So, So Different
나만 이런 게 아닐까 때론 분해, Yeah
그러다 확 안아준 그 순간
추게 돼 춤 꾸는 듯 꿈
진짜 뭘까
솔직한 그 애 감정은
제자린 걸, Baby

[Chorus]
알 듯 말 듯 (Ah)
미지근한 그 마음
내겐 좀 부족해
Oh, 알고 싶어 난
꿈결 같은 (Ah)
나만의 상상 같은
사랑은 어려워 (어려워)
So Hard To Love (Hard To Love)

[Post-chorus]
So Hard To Love (Baby)
So Hard To Love

[Bridge]
로맨틱한 영화와
거리가 먼 우리 사이
지금 당장
마음을 보고 싶은 걸
너 이렇게 하다간
내가 떠날 지 몰라
표현해줘 More
On And On And On, Baby

[Chorus]
What Should I Do? (Baby, What Should I Do?)
미지근한 그 마음
더 갖고 싶은 걸
Oh, 나만 이럴까
꿈결 같은 (Ah)
나만의 상상 같은 (상상 같은)
사랑은 어려워 (어려워)
So Hard To Love (Hard To Love)

[Outro]
Baby
So Hard To Love (Baby)
So Hard To Love
So Hard To Love
Yeah
So Hard To Love
So Hard To Love, Hard To Love, Oh
Hard To Love

         

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Frequently Asked Questions

Who is the singer of the “Hard to Love” song?

The “Hard to Love” song is sung by Hitomi (히토미), Shuie (슈이), Mei (메이), Kanny (카니), Soha (소하), Dohee (도희), Junhwi (준휘), and Seungjoo (승주).

Who wrote “Hard to Love” by SAY MY NAME?

The song “Hard to Love” was written by ​Nevada (lalala Studio), Chaz Jackson, and Infinity.

Who composed “Hard to Love” by SAY MY NAME?

“Hard to Love” is composed by Chaz Jackson and Infinity.

When was the “Hard to Love song released?

The Hard to Love was released on December 29, 2025.

How long is Hard to Love by SAY MY NAME?

The duration of the song Hard to Love is approximately 3 minutes and 14 seconds.

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